Have you forgotten the last line of the Code? There is no Death, there is only the Force. The code is in the order it is in for a reason. When one loses someone, as Anakin did, one must remember this. They return to the Force, and in doing so become one with everything. The Force permeates all life, and is the collective will and strength of all living things.

Anakin was unable to understand this, and so it lead him astray. His lack of understanding of the final line drove him to break the other three tenants of the Code.