"No, wait-" [YOu couldn't just drop information like that - a Grandmaster who didn't start training until she was over twenty years of age and already had so many attachments - and move on like it wasn't anything.]

"Go back to that. You were over twenty? There is a splinter group of heretical Jedi who accept adults initiates, but they were shunned from the Order and you couldn't even speak of them. You had a daughter? Did you have to leave her in someone else's care to become a Jedi?"